Sunday, May 13, 2012

Moving on...

As I sit at the computer today and look through old pictures, I reminisce the wonderful life of my Aunt Teresa. It helps me remember all the great things that have happened in our lives. Despite the crap, we are all incredibly lucky people who have so much to be thankful for. So I honor myself this Mother's Day by writing a blog to my birthday girl, Anouk. I can't believe my baby is nearly 7 and my big guy will be 9 in a few months. Where does the time go?

To Anouk...

Anouk,

There are many lessons I will have to teach you in your life. I'll have to help you multiply 6 x 7, model true friendships, and show you to to shave your legs. I will be there to talk you through a broken heart and show you that pride exhibits itself through tears, smiles, and laughter. But today, what I want to remind you is that the universe will throw a lot of hurdles in front of you. You can't let those things get you down. You must MOVE ON! And you have already started learning that lesson early.

I know this past school year has been a challenging one for you. Ending your summer vacation with a serious leg injury started off your first grade year on the "wrong foot" (so to speak). So I can't tell you how proud of you I am. Despite such challenges, you look down at your scarred legs and see beauty instead of sorrow. You remember the people we've lost--Larry, Tricia's papa, Uncle Len, and Auntie Teresa--even though you were too young to know who they really were!

You have forced yourself into a number of difficult situations recently and this video shows just one of your latest. (For those who don't know, let me give you some context. During climbing lessons this year, Anouk had developed a fear for something she used to love. At her Student-Led Conference she wanted to show everyone--including Bomma--how much higher she could climb. This is what she was able to achieve! And to think, just 3 weeks earlier she was crying and hyperventilating.)



Yesterday, we held your 7th birthday and your idea about candy was great. So this summer, we loaded up on tons of American candy that you just couldn't get here. It was great fun to see you and Xavier drool over the Smarties, Pixie Sticks, and Gumballs. Heck, even while I was in Jakarta at that conference a few weeks ago, I stocked up on even more candy we couldn't find here in Surabaya. I think watching you and Xavier try to blow bubbles with the Hubba Bubba had to be one of the best laughs I've had in weeks.



When your friends all went home and we cuddled on the couch to talk about the fun we had, I thought to myself, "When will Anouk stop cuddling with me? When will she grow up to be too cool for this?" I'm glad that day isn't here yet.

It was yet one more happy day in our lives. Anouk, honey... this is how we move on.

Love,
Mama

P.S. for those of you who want to see the photos of the birthday party, click through the photostream below.

Anouk's 7th

Here are some photos from Anouk's land of candy...

candy bagscandyLandstealing candymmm...candy!artists
focused artistsquietJustinfocusedSi EonNadiah
serioustough choicelooking ongetting readynot getting farcandy-nary
all smileswishessundaes on Saturdayplay time

Anouk's 7th, a set on Flickr.

Friday, March 30, 2012

Budding actresses and the Amazing Race

Wow. I can't believe it's actually been this long since I logged on and shared our adventures, so let me give you a brief synopsis of some of our goings on:

OUR BUDDING ACTRESS: Despite a difficult year and the jitters leading up to the play, our budding access completed another show-stopper this year. Acting as "the Wolf" in "The Gingerbread Boy" Anouk showed of her true passion--the limelight. To see her comedic debut, click to minute 5:12.


OUR AMAZING RACE: Spring has sprung and we were off on another adventure. This spring break took us to the city of Yogyakarta (pronounced Joe-juh-car-tuh). A 40-minute flight from Surabaya, Jogja (as it's referred to by locals) is considered to be the center of Javanese art and culture. The city is key to Indonesian history as it served as the capital of the country during the revolution from the Dutch in 1945. Now, the city is bustling with over 70 universities and millions of tourists that visit annually to check out 2 of UNESCO's World Heritage Sites.

Our adventures started on bustling Malioboro Street which is famous for its shopping and local eateries. We traipsed our way through the hustle and bustle of the Sunday market day passing women selling fried bats and chicken satays on every corner. During our incredibly hot walk we were inundated by the tourism of this city by having to say, "No" to at least 50 beycak drivers who were trying to sell us a cheap drive to the Sultan's Palace. Once we arrived at the palace, we noticed a group of about 300 school children were just dropped off in half a dozen busses, so we turned around and made for the hotel's pool instead.

The next day was the start of our Amazing Race. We hired a car to take us to the famed Buddhist temple: Borobudur. Built around the 9th century, Borobudur was home to an Amazing Race challenge during it's 19th season. So, in typical "Angela" fashion, I crafted the roadblock and away we went--climbing up to the uppermost platform, we tried to count the various Buddha statues with 4 distinctive hand orientations. Because of the incredible heat, we gave up and just enjoyed the experience of this mammoth site.

The story of Borobudur is varied depending on which source you refer to. The amazing temple was said to have been built between the 8th and 9th centuries and abandoned around the 14th century. Some believe that the neighboring active volcano, Mt. Merapi, caused people to flee from the villages while others believe that the site was ignored when the Javanese people began to convert from Buddhism and Hinduism to Islam. Whichever story you believe, the site was overgrown with dense jungle and years of volcanic ash until it's rediscovery was noted by the British ruler of Java, Sir Thomas Raffles in the late 1800s.

Since then, Borobudur has seen numerous restoration projects. Unfortunately, this amazing site is vulnerable due to recurring natural disasters. The temple is built on a fault which continues to destabilize the ancient arches. During last year's eruption of Mt. Merapi (see the picture at left), Borobudur was covered with over a centimeter of ash whose damage was still visible on the day we visited. Between the challenges of nature and the 2.5 million tourists that visit every year, Borobudur is one sight that may not be around for long.

After that, we visited a number of smaller Buddhist temples on our way to the famed Hindu temple, Prambanan. On our way to this famous temple, we stopped off at Candi Pawon which was built a century earlier than Borobudur. Entering the innermost temple, where people are said to be "purified" before their trek to Borobudur, we made offerings to Buddha and sent prayers for Auntie Teresa. We figure the more Gods that are working on her healing, the better!

We stopped off for a lovely lunch, some silver smithing, and some more temples on our way to the Hindu temple, Prambanan. This temple, also built in the 9th century is said to be the most beautiful Hindu temple in the world. Like Borobudur, the story of it's abandonment is varied depending on the source, but it's beauty and the true scale is unmatched by most other sights.

To see more photos of our adventure, check out our Jogja Gallery.


OUR NEW COLLEAGUE: She's an oldie, but goodie. Tylene Desfosses was unfortunately evacuated from Syria due to political unrest in the country. Our school was in need of a 4th grade teacher because of a maternity leave--so it was a match made in heaven. Tylene is here and we're trying hard to help her assimilate quickly. One way in which we did this was by enjoying a "Hunger Games" movie debut at the Premier movie theater. We enjoyed the movie while sitting in reclining leather chairs with blankets and waiter service. It was fabulous! And it only cost us about $4 US.

OUR BIG PROJECT: It's no surprise when I tell you that last year was the best teaching year of my life. I know, I know, you've heard it all before... but last year, I couldn't contain the true exhilaration I had for my teammate, my profession, and my students who helped to chang the world. So this year, I was thrilled when the story of our water unit was picked up and published in the International School Services NewsLinks magazine which is sent out quarterly to 500 schools worldwide. The article is below.

OUR NEW PASSION: Bread still stinks here in Indonesia so we have become little bread artisans thanks to Chef John from San Francisco. We stole his beer bread recipe, made some of our own modifications (using whole wheat flours, oats, fresh spices, etc.) and are baking our hearts away here in Indonesia. Try it yourself:

OUR NEW CHAOS: Over the next 70+ days, we've got a lot going on in our lives. We're getting geared up for some sort of Easter celebration, a conference in Jakarta, Quiz Night (where we teachers must defend our 1st place finish), Anouk's 7th birthday, a house move, and another grade-level move for Angela. On day 73, we'll be off on an adventure that will take us all around the world. I can't wait.

Sunday, February 12, 2012

When Mama isn't around...

This weekend Mama had to work at school on Friday and Saturday. It's really fun to be with Papa because when Mama isn't around, we get to have even more fun! We get to eat potatoes with mayo and beans followed by Nutella crepes for desert, we get to build huge, messy, obnoxious forts all over the living room, and we get to make up stupid lyrics to some of Mama's favorite songs. When Mama's around, it can be bor-ing! Most of the time, when Mama's around there are rules, there are chores, and there are messes to clean up! So when Mama is away, here's is what can happen..


To make it even more exciting, Papa not only let us do it, but he video-taped it, added sound effects, and uploaded it to YouTube so we could share it with the world.

We hope Mama doesn't find out!

Signed,
Anouk, Xavier, and Papa... "Three's Trouble"

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Terrific Thailand

Thailand has always intrigued me. National Geographic photos of Thai architecture, wats containing oversized Buddhas, and copious amounts of gold-leaf have always piqued my curiousity. So when Rob found our family hugely discounted tickets to Thailand for Christmas... I was in!

Upon arriving in Bangkok late at night, we were hustled along the busy streets in our neon pink taxi (which made a certain little girl very happy!) After an interesting detour through the backroads around our hotel (which we tried to communicate to the driver that we had already passed), we arrived at the Somerset apartments which would be our not-typical-Thailand home for the next three nights!
We started our adventure with a "Western Day" in Bangkok. We took the kids on their first tuk-tuk ride with Xavier clutching my hand nearly the entire way. At the mall, we were inundated with Bangkok's absorption of all things western--Maddam Tussauds, Starbucks, KrispyKreme, Burger King, and our first stop-- Siam Ocean World. As we walked around, Rob and I got a bit nostalgic of our yearly memberships at Monterey Bay Aquarium and the hours we would spend just sitting and watching with our kids. The one thing that did set this experience apart was our behind-the-scenes tour of the aquarium's gut as well as a short ride on a glass-bottom boat where we could see the sharks swim below us as we tried to feed them shrimp amidst the frenetic chaos of the other fish. We topped off this day with a trip to the bowling alley where everyone was quite thankful for the invention of bumpers! Our day ended with a nod to our Dubai days with a toasty warm hot chocolate as we watched the expat community skate around an indoor ice rink. Very cool.

Our "truly Thailand" tour started the next day with a river taxi ride to the Grand Palace. We walked around the King's former residence in an effort to count the number of gilt mythical features that festoon every nook and cranny on a quest for the famed Emerald Buddha. After climbing up and down steps that lead to one or another shrine of some sort, we finally turned the corner and found the crowd at Wat Phra Kaeo. This dramatically ornate building holds the most revered image of Buddha that Thailand has. The puny 26-inch tall Buddah (which is ironically carved from a single piece of jade, not emerald) sits in a glass throne high amongst an alter of marble, mother-of pearl, and gold-leaf deities and guards. Unfortunately, due to the fact that we were visiting Thailand in the cool season (as opposed to the wet or dry), our little buddy Buddha was all covered up and we could barely see any of his remarkable "emerald" beauty. Oh well... to learn more about the true story of the Emerald Buddha, click here.

We followed up a visit to the smallest Buddha by making our way to Wat Pho which touts itself in 3 distinctive ways. One, it serves as the center of Thailand's public education, two, they run the most respected Thai massage school in the country from this wat, and three, it is home to the largest reclining Buddha in Thailand. At 150 feet in length and 50 feet tall, this gigantic statue represents Buddha's passing into Nirvana.

Our Bankgok adventures included long walks down alleyways where few tourists dare to tread. For hours we walked through small mangled streets feeling the true Thailand behind our apartment's manicured lawns. The smells were challenging, the houses were sparse, but the hustle and bustle amongst these tiny streets was enthusiastic and entrepreneurial. As we walked further we felt more and more like Dorothy 'cause we sure as hell weren't in Kansas anymore!

Next on our agenda was a trip to Kanchanaburi in the South central plains. Though the journey is only 2 hours by car, Kanchanaburi could not be more different than Bangkok as we exchanged tuk-tuks, taxis, and trains, for 4-wheel trucks, hundreds of bars, and thousands of tourists! Unfortunately, there were few tourists to be seen at the night market where we sampled a smattering of street foods including sweet roti (a thin chapati drizzled with sweetened condensed milk), Turkish shawarmas, cold vegetarian noodles with chopped peanuts and sugar, which we washed down with delicious fresh-fruit smoothies. We finished our walking-dinner as the sun set behind the mountains and finding a taxi to take us the 20 minutes back to our hotel was proving to be very challenging. Thank goodness we found a lovely girl who had attended her senior year of high school in Iowa who was willing to help some wayward travelers. Daowz Lee came to our aid and loaded us in her dad's amulet-encrusted Expedition and drove us back to our digs so the kids could get an early night--elephants were on tap for tomorrow!

Our excursion to Elephant's World was a remarkable one for the three of us (unfortunately, Rob needed a down day to get his stomach back on track). The kids and I were picked up in an open-air truck-truck and driven deep into the mountains and banana fields to the Elephant's World camp where elephants and their mahouts (a.k.a. human driver) came to retire after begging on the streets of Bangkok or being hurt by their work in the logging industry. The workers and volunteers work for the animals and this resulted in us: hand feeding the younger elephants bananas and pineapple, cooking up sticky-rice balls with cooked pumpkin for the aged and toothless, chopping down banana trees, and bathing them in the river. It was an amazing day that the kids (and their mama) will not soon forget.

 

With Rob feeling a bit better the next day, we decided to explore Kanchanaburi on foot and have a day at our own pace. We had no idea that our walk would take us to the famed Bridge over the River Kwai and the gazillion tourists (mostly Thai) who would be there. We arrived just in time to see one of the diesel trains loading up to take off on it's 70+ km. route up and down the Thailand-Burma railroad (which is better known as the Death Railroad). It was difficult explaining why the railroad was built and the inhumanity of war. To explain to my kids how 100,000 Asian laborers and 12,000 Allied forces P.O.W.'s died during it's 16-month build was a sad reality. The kids, though, were so intrigued by the story that they solemnly walked by the graves of 100s of Allied soldiers and read each name and message printed upon the plaque at the Allied War Cemetery.

Our last full day of exploration was Christmas Day which didn't feel like a true holiday in any sense. Amazingly, Santa found his way to our hotel in Kanchanaburi and left the kids a few books that they read as mama and papa called loved ones around the world! After that, we drove to Erawan National Park which felt more like a leisurely fall drive through the Sunol canyon than a day out in Thailand. The luscious area was full of thick autumn-colored leaves being whipped by gusts of wind. We arrived at a rather empty park and began our hike over knotted tree roots and worn river rocks as we climbed up to various tiers of the falls. The highlight was watching the kids and Rob brave the nearly-arctic water to swim amongst the waterfall of tier 3. Though we continued further up the tiers, we hit our tilt and decided that it would be safer to return to the base tiers for some relaxing playtime in the water.

 


After we dried off, we drove to Tam Krasae, a stop for the Thailand-Burma Railroad. This little rail crossing is home to the Wang Po viaduct and the Krasae cave where a huge Buddha lies in wait. Crossing the viaduct was a bit treacherous but with only tourist trappings as our alternative, we braved the cave and walk. When the ground began to shake, we quickly edged our way to the platform to board the train and snag the coveted window seats so we could ensure a great view for our 90 minute trip. 
Passing through the area's faming valley, we rocked and rolled our way down the Death Railway and the tragedy of the railroad's creation sat like a rock in our gut. But things began to change as we approached the center of town. The fervor on the train was once again at its peak as everyone scrambled to look out the windows at the floating hotels and restaurants as we crossed the river Kwai. Riding the Death Railway marks an abysmal time in our world's history that, judging by the sheer number of tourists visiting, is sure to be remembered by many generations to come.

Our terrific Thailand adventure came to an end with a Christmas dinner at the famed Apple's Guest House. We noshed on blue rice, pad thai, and chicken satay in a delicious cinnamon peanut sauce while watching speeding long boats cruise down the river. Our Christmas feast culminated in an inspired lawn dance by our kids and then was topped off by thick banana pancakes and coconut-apple ice cream. 
Our journey had its ups (our hike at Erawan Falls) and downs (getting stabbed at the hospital to determine the severity of our yucky tummies) and our Christmas tree was not bursting at the seams, but the four of us were reminded of what is truly important in this world... and for that, we are eternally grateful!

To view some more of Rob's wonderful photos, go here and click on "slideshow"!