Summer 2013, a set on Flickr.
Photo memories of another great summer holiday!
We are very lucky. We know that.
To live our crazy, whirlwind-of-a-lifestyle, though, we give up a lot--the joys and challenges of living near family and friends, the familiarity of "home", the safety and ease of completing paperwork and having appointments in our "home" languages, and missing nearly every special event. In exchange for all of those comforts we have experiences that can sometimes seem unreal--someone to do the laundry and dust the house, amazing educational opportunities for our wee ones, crazy cultural adventures (like going to a restaurant, being presented with an beautiful menu, spending time selecting a meal only to learn that despite the copious menu options, only 1 food item is available), and amazing adventures.
So...after accepting new jobs at the Bangkok Job Fair and signing on the dotted line with the American International School of Johannesburg, Rob and I began one of our recurring discussions. It can best be entitled, "What We Will Miss: A Look Back at Our Amazing Home." Glowing with joy from our recent job procurement, Rob and I sat at a local restaurant near the Shangri-La and started "the discussion". What will we regret not doing when we leave Southeast Asia? What quest will we have remorse about if we did not do it?
During "the discussion" we were able to check great things off our list: We vacationed at the beach in Lombok and Bali, embraced a different culture (and animals) while in Thailand, and visited our "international family" in Australia and Japan. What must we do?
A short 50 minutes from Surabaya is the province of Kalimantan (also known as Borneo). It is the worlds 3rd largest island, shared by three different countries: Indonesia, Malaysia, and Brunei. We lingered on the Indonesian side by visiting Tanjung Puting National Park. After a night in the tiny city of Pangkalan Bun we were picked up by our guide, Iim. Within minutes we boarded our klotok (an Indonesian houseboat) with Iim, a captain, cook, and steward. Our klotok was basic and perfect. The upper deck was ours--set up with a dining table and deck chairs plus two mattresses and pillows (for those necessary afternoon naps). At night, the deck was converted to our sleeping quarters by adding additional mattresses and mosquito nets. Suddenly, a gibbon with gold fur swung from tree to tree. It robbed the orangutan's bananas while a wild [bearded] pig charged out of the bushes towards the orangutan baby. Running away from the wild pig, the baby tripped over tree roots, did a somersault, landed on its feet, and kept running to its mother. The mother was startled and climbed up into a tree with her baby. Then, she took a tree branch and tried to whack the pig with it. The pig just went under the orangutan and continued eating the banana peels totally unaffected by the branch.
I woke up in the morning on day 2 with the lovely sunrise beyond me. It was amazing! The birds were squawking, the monkeys were howling, and the cicadas finally stopped "eeeeeing." But all of the animals were strangely hidden. All the monkeys: gibbons, orangutans, macaques, proboscis, lagurs, and other animals were hidden deep in the dark, wet forest. Later that morning, we were amazed to see a small brown squirrel climbing up a tall narrow tree.
When you wake up on Friday, say to yourself, "Everyone I love is here" and then live the day...
- call in sick and take your kids sledding
have a glass of wine at 1:00 in the afternoon- sing in the aisle of the grocery store, or the wine store
- hand-write a note to someone and tell them it's just a note to say you love them
- eat chocolate for breakfast
leave work and have lunch with someone you love,and then don't go backbook a trip,or better yet, throw your stuff in a suitcase, open a map, and drive away for the weekend- skip around - at work, in the parking lot, wherever
make a video with your kids and send it to your family -- all of them; they will all love it- hold hands all day - with your spouse, your kids, your mom, your sister -- just reach out and grab on